you're magic. I just fucking love your brain, Amanda Bird and as I seem to say to you incessantly because somehow we seem to be in this weird mirrored journey, I relate to this on so many levels. thank you for writing your truth and your heart because via your words I don't feel so alone.
"I have a ton of judgement being "that girl" who is derailed by a guy and blah blah blah. I hate that I think about him and I hate that I talk about him like it matters to anyone else. I have to break it down as if I am a character in a play going through these circumstances - because it's not about him, really. It's about attaching feelings to something."
^^ SO MUCH YES.